An Open Letter To My Six Year Old

Dear Six Year Old,

I write these things because I want to remember them. If I could bottle you up right now and never let you grow, I would in a heartbeat. It literally pains me to know that each passing day is a day that you are getting older. But with each day you are also getting more wise, more beautiful, and more self-aware. 

I love that you have “found your voice”, even if that means yelling at me because I’ve asked you four times already to feed the dog. I love that you play dress up….46 times a day. I love that you watch me do my makeup most mornings and ask “when I’m your age, I want to play with pretty makeup, too.” 

I love when you first wake up and your tired little voice says “good morning”, followed by a hug that comes every morning like clock work. I love when I get off work and you come running to the door because you know I’m home, quickly followed by “what’s for dinner?” And no matter what I say it is, you respond with “I don’t like that!” I love you for that, I really really do. 

You have lost your two front teeth at six and I could sit and talk to you all day long. Your lisp right now is the cutest. You have also gained a lot of confidence since turning six. You love to sing and dance and I just know you feel the music to your core. You are a free spirit and I love that about you. 

I love doing prayers with you every night, even if for the past year you have prayed for TWO things….a dog that passed away and our babysitter with cancer. Speaking of Crystal, our beloved babysitter, you have such a heart for her and it makes me cry every time. Shopping in the grocery store you wanted to buy Crystal flowers “just because I think it will make her happy”. On the way to her house you explained to me that “even though flowers will die, we have our memories which we can look back on that make us smile.” You my sweet child have a heart of gold. 
You really, really do. 

You have a heart of gold. A sweeter spirit than anyone I know. A smile that could light up a room. A laugh that is contagious. A hug that heals. A passion for life bigger than most adults I know. You make me proud. 

I love when I say “my back hurts” and you jump up to “give it rubs”, even if its just tiny little fingers scratching my back. You know just how to make me smile. 

My sweet girl, I love you. I hope you never ever forget or question that. We say “I love you” 4,392 times a day, but I hope you never forget that I truly love you more than anything in this world. 

I love you at six. 

Mom of a Six Year Old

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Fitness Update & E-Hydrate!

Trying to “get into shape” is sometimes a LOT harder than it seems. AMIRIGHT?! Somedays I’m ON. Gym, water, healthy food, BAM!  Somedays I want 42 cheeseburgers. And eat a lot of chocolate. 

But nonetheless, we’ve been trying to get into shape! It’s been going surprisingly well and M and I are both losing weight! But more than that, his major gout flare up has been calming down and my afternoon crash is going away. 

With getting into fitness also comes trying to find supplements if you chose to go that route. I don’t know why but I really love trying new protein powders/types. It’s like a fun game for me. I usually mix them up in my morning shakes or have a shake after the gym. E-Hydrate actually sent us these awesome protein powders to try and guys, this is the coolest thing I’ve seen! Simple, accessible, delicious. 

A comment I get A LOT is “Wow, you get so much stuff for free! How awesome!” Guys. It really is cool. HOWEVER. Not everything is wonderful and perfect and YAY I LOVE THIS! This protein powder actually tastes awesome and I LOVE the packaging of it. I also got sent some energy/nutrition drink mixes and they just weren’t for me. I’m trying to say this in a tasteful way without being “snobby” but still being REAL.
I just didn’t love the taste. BUT, to each their own. 😉 

Onto the protein powder…!
It seriously has the coolest packaging. It is so simple to take to the gym and fill up after because of this sleek design. And I’m not kidding when I say the taste is AWESOME. They even have kids mixes! I know my daughter loves being “just like mommy”, so having one of these just for her was perfect! 



If you guys are looking for a fun new product to try, check this out! Get your kids involved, too! They will love it! 
What is your favorite flavor of protein? E-Hydrate even has a CINNAMON ROLL FLAVOR! Hello, amazing! You can even check out your local Target and you might find some there. 😉 
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Little Ways I Know He Loves Me…

Have you ever researched your love language? Seriously, have you?!
If you haven’t, you really should. There are five love languages (gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical touch) and essentially it is how you express and receive LOVE.
If you’ve truly never looked into it, read the book and/or take the love language test. It has been revolutionary for me.

My love language? Gifts.
My husbands love language? Physical touch.
The language on the bottom of my list? Physical touch.
The langage on the bottom of my husbands list? Gifts.

I’ve realized my husband doesn’t like surprises or gifts the same way I don’t love to be smothered all day every day with hugs and kisses. But the greatest thing about marriage? We compromise for each other.
Some days I think to myself “why can’t he just surprise me or get me cute gifts?!” Well…it’s because he doesn’t feel emotion the same way I do when it comes to those things. AND. THAT’S. OKAY.

Each day I love thinking about the ways my husband DOES in fact show me that he loves me, 
even if he’s pissing me the heck off.
I think that’s so important in marriage. Finding and realizing ways you still do love each other and go out of your way for each other. Like last night at 10 pm when I realized I left my charger in the car and without even asking M was first to jump up and say “I’ll go get it!”

Or tonight when he told me to go to the gym right after work even though I hadn’t made dinner yet. 
He just wanted me to get that workout in.

Or the times he drops my car off at my work and walks home because he doesn’t want me to walk home in the cold, even if it is across the street.

Or the fact that he is a handy man and fixed our hot water heater this morning when I had no hot water for a shower.

Or when I lock my keys in my car 3,392 times and he never ONCE complains about it, 
he figures out a way to get them out.

I love the saying “never stop dating your spouse”, but even bigger than that for me is don’t stop remembering the small things they do for you and don’t stop showing love to each other every single day. 

I love our life so so much and I love my husband so so much. I know I am a handful. I know I am emotional, and dramatic, and sometimes a flat out brat. But I love love LOVE that M handles that. He loves me in ways I need it, he shows me compassion EVERY SINGLE DAY, he CONSTANTLY is showing me his love and I am so beyond grateful so him. Marriage is a great thing, isn’t it?!

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Pretending To Be A Fashion/Style Blogger

I really love cute clothes, but I am really bad about talking/posting about them. Hence why I refer to myself as a “lifestyle blogger” and not a “fashion or style blogger”. HOWEVER, I am giving this a shot because I am absolutely in love with this top, this company, AND there is a giveaway. 
So hi, hello, my name is Kaylin…the wannabe fashion blogger! 

I love online shopping. Who doesn’t? AMIRIIIIGHT? Don’t lie. It’s okay to admit these things. Nothing to be ashamed about. So many cute stores, so little time. Being a twenty something year old wife and mom who works full time and feels like I’m pushing 50, I have a hard time finding clothes to fit my needs. My “I have a job to go to so I need to look put together but I still love cute clothes”, needs. My “I’m a mom and need to look put together”, needs. My “hashtag modest is hottest but I still wanna look GOOD”, needs. A lot of online stores don’t offer clothes for gals like me. I want all the cute clothes, but i’d like my butt to not be hanging out. Where are those gals at?!? *Insert hand pump to the sky* WOO! SOUL SISTAS! 

Anyway, I digress. 
Y’all. Have you ever shopped at PINKBLUSH? So many cute clothes. And I mean SOOO many cute clothes! And cute clothes for WOMEN. REAL women. That’s my favorite thing. Also, they offer a maternity line. Which if ever I am so lucky, I will surely be purchasing from! Guys. This site is too cute to pass up and you need to go check it out. 

I am going to link some of my favorite pieces from their site because hi, hello, trying to be helpful. You’re welcome.





I love the tunic I picked out. I feel like it can be worn a ton of different ways and it just screams SPRING! If you’re not a towering skyscraper like me, you could even pull this off as a dress. But these legs don’t permit any of that to happen. Dress is up, dress it down. I absolutely love pieces like that! 

And if you’ve made it this far in reading this, bless you! Kidding, but head over to my instagram where I will be giving away a $75 gift card for PINKBLUSH! Whaaat?! Yupp! $75 to spend on whatever you want! 

(I just had to throw this in here because she kills me with how cute and sweet she is)
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